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Its Not New for Me....... To Aspire

It’s not New for me …… To Aspire

Hey Friends, on most of the occasions when we feel low, we tend to feed some terrible thoughts into our minds – ‘Nobody understands me’; ‘My situation is the worst’; ’No body supports me’ and many other similar customized versions.

When I say terrible, the word derives its suitability from the outcome which is created by these small simple sentences. Our mind loses positivism and brain is engulfed with all un-resourceful thoughts and beliefs too. While most of us realize sooner or later, that the particular situation was just another phase; the harm of the moment and some outcomes created then - can never be reversed.

On the other hand, positive thoughts not only create a resourceful state of mind but also give us ability to design a solution oriented path. The challenge comes when we are required to develop this condition when external factors seem to go against our desired conditions.

I would like to leave you all with a small creation of mine which depicts the mental status of one such human but with a pinch of difference where the harm of the probable outcome is diverted. This is in the form of a (self – explanatory) poetry for you to ponder upon:

When days were meant to chirp around and live life…
I was struggling to shoulder lesser responsibilities.
When days should have meant only friends and fun with them all around…
I was fighting to lessen burdens, beyond my abilities.

When time was for me to desire and demand anything…
I was trying to realize how ends could meet with sureties.
When days came to relish success and enjoy…
I was hoping to grab some happiness but there were still uncertainties.

When I was at the stage of understanding virtues like love and belonging…
I was busy helping others and for myself arranging priorities.
When I felt independent and self-sufficient to decide things…
I was yet again laid back by extended responsibilities.

BUT,

It’s not new for to still desire,
It’s not new for me to face such twinge,
It’s not new for anyone to ignore my emotions and put them on fire,
However MOST IMPORTANTLY,

IT’S NOT NEW FOR ME TO GATHER MYSELF, SIT BACK, WATCH THE WORLD AND YET ASPIRE!!
Nivedita Singh


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Location: Pune, Maharashtra, India

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